Teens wants dating

A threesome is a risk. Sometimes it can bring up all kinds of jealousies, competitions, insecurities, etc. and really fuck-up a relationship. On the flip-side, if you two are connected, comfortable, able to communicate VERY well, and have an appreciation and understanding of your own jealousy issues, it can bring you closer together. Watching your partner play with someone can give you a unique view of your partner's sexuality and hotness that you rarely get when you're one-on-one with your partner. Teaming-up with your partner to pleasure the 3rd can be an exercise in cooperation with your partner and if you do it right, quite a gift in pleasure to your 3rd. Being that your wife wants you to find the third and that she's putting a lot of stipulations on it especially the fact that she wants the 3rd to NOT be prettier than her ehhh, it doesn't sound like your wife has dealt with jealousy issues enough for you to have a comfortable, relaxed, and mutually pleasurable 3-way experience. It sounds like she'll probably fly off the handle if she sees you kissing, fucking or licking the 3rd. And what fun is that? And what kind of discomfort and awkwardness would you be imposing upon this poor 3rd girl if that happens? Maybe someday, you and your wife be ready for a 3-way, but I don't think that day is now from what you've said about your wife. She needs to "get over" some of her insecurities. You can help by reassuring her and talking to her about them. I think having a 3-way with your wife prone to insecurities is a VERY bad idea.